"Dylan and I grew up in the same neighborhood, literally just streets
apart. It wasn't until we were out of school that fate finally lined up,
however. We had many mutual friends, and one day I saw his profile
online and sent him a message. We texted non-stop for a few days and
finally agreed to meet at a local beach. Walking up to this tall, tan,
handsome man instantly gave me butterflies and I thought this was way
too good to be true. We walked the beach and talked for an hour
or two when he pulls out this whole sand dollar from his pocket. It was
bigger than my hand! He says, "I found this before you got here and
thought you'd like it since you mentioned that you love the ocean and
aren't really a flower kind of girl." We started to walk back toward our
cars; he opened the door for me and gave me the sweetest kiss! That day
was absolutely perfect. The following weekend we were dating and the
rest is history! To this day that sand dollar sits on top of sand from
that beach in a shadow box on display in our home.
On Christmas Day (my favorite holiday, by the way), we were celebrating
the festivities with our families at his grandparents' house. Talk was
going on of a fishing tournament and who could catch the biggest fish,
so we all gathered along the canal in the backyard to start a little
friendly competition. Dylan came out last with the only fishing pole and
asked me to bait his hook. My natural response was, "Bait your own
hook!" Haha! When I reached out for the line, I realized
a beautiful halo diamond engagement ring was knotted to the end in
place of the hook. Dylan got down on one knee and said, "You're my best
friend; you've been my best friend for a long time. I love you with all
my heart and I want to be with you for the rest of my life. Will you
make me the happiest man in the world and marry me?" With excitement and
tears I declared, "Yes!" and he swept me up and put his fist in the air
and said, "I got the best catch!" The whole family was in on the
surprise and there wasn't a single dry eye left. I'm so very excited to
always remember Christmas as our perfect proposal and the start of a
beautiful engagement.
Is there a way to put it into words? I don't really know... I don't want
to say he was made for me or he is perfect because both are not true.
He is charming in that any woman could have fallen for him and it's his
flaws that really speak to my heart. It's the fact that we both enjoy
the same adventures and appreciate one another's strengths while
supporting one another's weaknesses. We don't complete each other, we
complement one another. We learn from each other. We respect
and appreciate each other. I never knew a love like I know with Dylan
because he empowers me as a woman while protecting me as his partner. He
is my teammate, my best friend, and my lover. He is the first person I
call whether it's a tragic situation or good news. He was an amazing
boyfriend, is an amazing fiance, and I know he is going to be an amazing
husband.
We will be getting married on April 28th, 2017, which is the three year
anniversary of our first date. The wedding ceremony will be held at
Dollman Beach, the beach where we first met. I'm not kidding when I say
that's all the planning we have done BUT our honeymoon is completely
planned and about to be booked! Dylan and I are going to celebrate our
new life as newlyweds in beautiful Costa Rica (tropical places are
paradise to us) for five days in the first week of May. Dylan
and I have been focusing on a movement called Staying I Do and it's a
part of beating the 50% divorce rate. We know that marriage isn't always
going to be all puppies and rainbows but we also know that we love each
other more than what our pride is worth. We're looking forward to all
Timeless Wedding Designs has in store for us during the planning
process!"
Photos by Laura Helmke Photography.
If you are interested in sharing your love story with us, please send me an email to Mandy@TimelessWeddingDesigns.com with the subject, "Love Is Timeless."
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